Till today, I am still confused about relationships and its' nuances in life!
Why do we need relationships? Why are they always so complicated? Even a simple relationship of being a colleague, room mate, car pool buddy has so much of complications! How do we then handle the bigger ones like that with our parents, friends, partner/lover, spouse, children, relatives..?
Do we have problems because we have expectations out of every one in our life? I think that is pretty much the mother of all problems! So if I agree that that is the cause, then can I stop my expectations?
I did try to curb few expectations out of people who matter because I thought they should have the freedom to be and act the way they want without being bound by any sort of expectation! But I realized that at times, even if YOU want to let go of the expectations, people around you don't let it happen! They will coax you to coax your relations to do what you want! confusing.. ? Trust me...it so f*** is !
Is there anyway that I can free myself from all these confusions?
The only way I think one can do that is when you don't have any ties with anyone and don't love anyone in your life!
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