How often do we move on in life tucking our painful memories away, remembering the beautiful moments...and reminiscing about our past ?
I bet all of us do that! Memories are an essential part of who we are and what we are!
But I think the most difficult of all memories to get over is of our love and relationships! Its said that nobody ever forgets the first love! But is it just the first love?
When we fall in love gain, does it it mean that it had lesser significance in our life? Did it mean less to us? Or was the pain of parting less than the first time?
I think love at any time of our life, is beautiful and equally painful ! Age and experience cannot prepare one to deal in withholding feelings or in dealing with heartbreaks!
Heart break always feels like the end of world!
And I guess it is worst when it is forced on you by the people or the circumstances around you!
And I fail to understand, why do we let people or circumstance decide our fate and destiny and the destiny of love? Isnt it better to get burnt after putting your hand in the fire rather than hold yourself becasue you have been told that fire is hot and that you might get burnt!
But...isnt there also the possibility that you just might come out of it unscathed....and maybe that was the most beautiful experience in your life ?
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