All of us since our childhood days, dream of a perfect life when you grow up! A perfect education, a perfect set of parents, a perfect love story, a perfect job, a perfect family with kids...and the list goes on!
But does life really turn out to be as perfect as we imagine? Or IS life as perfect as we think it is?
So, what is perfect? I would say things are perfect when it is just the way we want it to be, irrespective of whether it is the right way or wrong way!
One perspective of life being perfect is....that you believe everything is perfect, becasue you think everything is the way you want it to be...too blind to notice that its isnt fitting in anywhere in your life! And the other perpective being....living with the imperfect life, but living it perfectly becasue thats what you want !
Personally, I would choose to live the latter perfect life and be happy with my imperfections!
But what happens to the person who just cant accept that things arent always perfect and are not always what you wanted it to be?
My husband and I were considered to be the perfect couple among our friends and family! A Love Story that many would dream of coming true! A boy - girl meet, fall in love, marry against all the traditions and family members...and there on live as a happily ever after !
And all this while I believed in it too! Taking on every challenge and pushing it down under the carpet so that we remained the ever perfect couple with an ever perfect marriage!
But I guess, perfections never last long !
Someone said... "The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”
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